Sabina Erotica – FemDom Interview

I was asked to answer a series of questions, to be posted on a soon to be launched elite Domination website highlighting the worlds most truly powerful Dominas. Below is the interview.

1. I’m so excited to finally be interviewing the magnificent Sabina Erotica! Please introduce yourself: Who are you, and what do you do?

I am Mistress Sabina Erotica, lifestyle Dominatrix, Dominant woman, certified BDSM, fetish, lifestyle educator/counselor, specializing in Financial Domination addictions (the original FinDom Therapist), and male Domination, Financial Domination Queen, elite of the elite, and blackmail specialist.

2. When did you know you wanted to be a Mistress/Dominatrix?

I learned when I was very young, there were two different kinds of men: The alpha/assertive, and the submissive/servile. The submissive ones wanted to carry My books home from school, do My chores and run My errands. All they wanted from Me in return was to bask in My glory. I appreciated all the things they did for Me, and the money and gifts they would give Me. I found them very easy to control and manipulate if I so desired. In return, all I had to do was give them a little bit of My attention, and they were thrilled.

Over the years I have explored the deeper levels of being a Dominatrix and what being in control means, at all levels. I strive to be the best of the best at whatever I desire to do. And, I am. However, identifying Myself as a Mistress or a Dominatrix is only a part of the complex person I am, not the totality.

3. How do you express your Dominance? In other words, are you a pro, lifestyle, etc?

I am an unconventional lifestyle Mistress, marching to the beat of My own drum. I make My own rules, and cast off stereotypes of what it’s supposed to “mean” to be a “Domme”. I live the life most people only dream about living. I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. I answer to no one but Myself. I am highly selective about the men who serve Me real time. They are among the lucky few who get to be in My presence, and they know it and treat Me accordingly.

Nearly a decade ago I included online or distance training and email sessions to My Domination repertoire via the internet.

4. What are the differences between doing real time sessions and online/distance training sessions?

I’ve found the variety, speed, the need for discretion for My client subs and convenience of online Domination sessions to be very much to My liking. You cannot learn as much as I have learned doing phone Domination sessions in a lifetime of pro or real time sessions. You can’t meet the volume and diversity of men I have met either. I have very loyal and committed real time subs who serve Me well, but I tend to be predatory, always seeking the latest conquest. Online or distance training sessions are always changing depending on who I am in session with, keeping My interest level fresh. If one session doesn’t please Me, I only have to wait a short time, and there will be a better session/sub.

My real times subs get the privilege of interacting with Me by rubbing My feet, serving Me a drink, cleaning My house, doing My errands, taking Me shopping, traveling, and all the things an online or phone submissive is unable to do. My real time subs are fiercely loyal and devoted to pleasing Me. They constantly demonstrate their submission to Me and indulge Me financially in very generous ways

5. What is your opinion about men?

I love men. Men are My friends, My lovers and My servants. No, I don’t think all men are “losers”. Quite the contrary. I adore men. I like to like the men I Dominate. I prefer to surround Myself with smart, successful men, whether they be friend, lover or submissive. I also enjoy exploiting men, manipulating men, and using men.

6. What are the things you like and the things you dislike as a Mistress/Dominatrix?

Control. I have explored what control means My whole life. I understand it’s nuances better than anyone, bar none. I like being in control, being able to control men who have a lot of control in their daily lives. Controlling a lot of men worldwide.

Power. One can never have enough power, and having power over men is a way of life for Me. I feel comfortable Dominating some of the worlds most outwardly powerful men.

Total power exchange. Real power exchanges such as exploiting men financially and accumulating personal information gives Me real, tangible leverage. I deal in realism, real power exchange, not play pretend fantasy power.

What is there to dislike about being a Mistress? I can’t think of a single thing.

7. What kind of submissive man are you attracted to? Who are the men attracted to you?

This is an easy one. I like smart, intelligent, successful men, men who are ambitious and driven to succeed in their daily lives with a need to be submissive in private. Forward thinking, original, self made men, men with money and the desire to indulge a woman of My caliber. Men who have the ability to recognize My unique qualities and intelligence. Men with charisma, who make Me laugh, who inspire My mind, who can have interesting conversations outside of their personal interests in their own fetishes, men who have a genuine interest in Me and how to best please Me. Men who can think for themselves, who anticipate My needs, who strive to please Me in their own ways. Visionaries, corporate men, free thinkers… The list goes on.

The men who are attracted to Me tend to be exactly the kind of men I want to attract. I seek men I prefer to control and encourage those who fit My personal taste.

8. What do people get out of interacting with you?

The most powerful and rewarding form of Domination and control begins and ends in the mind and no one understands this like I do. No one. It’s easy to beat a man into submission, I’d rather inspire him to want to serve Me. I am curious about the men who are curious about Me. The Domme/sub dynamics are deeply explored with Me. I prefer long term interactions as those are more rewarding than the infrequent quickie session. The more a man gives, the more he gets. It’s My opinion that Domination should be a mutually enjoyable experience for both/all people involved. Sub men who show by action their sincere desire to please Me, get My sustained best in return. I will control you in all the ways you ever dreamed of.

10. What turns you on? What turns you off?

What turns Me on? Money. When a man gives Me a lot of money. The indisputable power exchange of money. I discovered My love for Financial Domination and financial exploitation long before it was called Financial Domination.

Blackmail. Having real power, control and leverage in a mans life. Making him do exactly as I please, or suffer real and tangible consequences.

Other times it can be that elusive Domme/sub chemistry two people have when they come together, or the way a sub responds to Me that I find arousing.

A few of the other things I enjoy in addition to Financial Domination and blackmail in no particular order: Mind fucking, mental manipulation, Female Supremacy, Cuckold, tease and denial, guided masturbation, total power exchange, forced intox, addictions, exploitation, money slavery, pay piggies, Goddess worship, complete financial ruin, life control, Dominant life coach/GFE (girl friend experience), time constraints, servitude, forced bi/glory hole, erotic power exchange, FemDomme FemDom Fatale relationships, phychological torment and much, much more.

For a more comprehensive fetish list of the things I enjoy, see My website HERE.

What turns Me off? Men who talk about the fantasy of Financial Domination and blackmail. The completely self-centered, the self serving kinksters who show no interest in Me except as a vehicle to his orgasm. I’ll do sessions with them, as long as they are respectful enough, and compensating Me well for My expertise, but I won’t remember who they are the moment I hang up. In fact, the only submissive men who stay on My radar are those who are actively striving to please Me in the ways I outline on My website. The rest I simply forget the moment I hang up the phone except to see how much money I garnered from them.

I have the popularity and the ability to pick and choose among the very best to interact with. Those I don’t like or who disrespect Me, simply get blocked. It’s a privilege being in My world.

11. Do you have relationships with your submissive partners?

It depends on how you define a “relationship”. If you mean in the more conventional sense, as in being married to a submissive man or cuckold, the answer is no. I don’t “date” submissive men. I have alpha lovers who meet My sexual needs, and I Dominate My subs. As I am an authentic lifestyle FemDom I don’t have sex or sexual contact with My subs. However, I do have very deep, meaningful relationships with some of My subs in terms of emotional, financial and non-contact sexual ways.

12. Are you actively involved in the BDSM scene?

Do I attend BDSM social functions, munches or fetish gatherings? No. I find them boring, crass and pretentious. I feel the same way about a lot of different social gatherings, not just BDSM.

13. Anything else you’d like people to know that wasn’t covered already?

I don’t think most men are “losers”. While I can take control of a willing sub in an instant, I don’t expect every man to drop to his knees for Me the moment we connect. I am genuine and authentic, I do not act or play a role. I prefer My subs to be the same.

I rarely if ever pursue a man, men pursue Me. I know My value and worth as a Domina not because I proclaim it, but because 40,000+ men have both told Me and shown Me. Men indulge Me, a LOT of men indulge Me. If you want My attention, you must demonstrate and prove yourself. You have tough competition.

I am a leader among My own, top rated Mistress and ranked at the top of niteflirt, the most competitive phone sex Domination website with the highest level of competition to be found anywhere on the internet. I demonstrate My own personal power in very real and verifiable ways, therefor I expect to be treated accordingly.

How can submissive men interested in sessions with you, contact you?

I conduct phone distance training sessions and online paid email sessions via niteflirt under My name, Sabina Erotica and Mistress Sabina Erotica. Find My Main listing click HERE.

I have several websites, and a blog all which can be found on My main website at SabinaErotica.com.

Thank you Mistress Sabina Erotica for this insightful interview. You really are an incredible FemDom!

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Financial Domination – Feed My Greed

Another motherfucking payday for ME, Sabina Erotica. Cha-ching I LOVE it when I get a huge stack of cash from one of My many devoted pay piggies! This pay piggie wants to be financially ruined, and he’s doing a good job of not only exhausting his savings, and cashing in his CDs, but he is now siphoning off his retirement account… For ME.

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What Financial Domination FemDom Extraordinaire Sabina Erotica Loves – “Wish List”

I am often asked if I have a “wishlist”.

My pets, I am accustomed to the finest things in life. I do not shop at mail order outlets. I do not shop at tacky shopping Malls. I don’t go to designer brand stores as I am no slave to fashion designer labels because I am a slave to no one. Oh no, My pet. Only the finest exclusive things dare touch My perfect FemDom body!

What I love, are couture one of a kind fashions. I don’t ever pick something based on the designers name, but the item itself. If I like it, I will have it custom tailored to fit My unusual exquisite 32EE-22-32 FemDom temple of a body. A few of the lingerie sets I am going to get are pictured above. If you would like to buy Me something, they often start at $1,000-$2,000 and go up from there. Bras, panties and corsets are My latest interests. While I love My fetish outfits (the majority paid and custom made for Me paid for by individual pets, both online and real time), being the leader and visionary that I am, I have never been one for convention. I favor unique, often very feminine finery (as opposed to conventional, hard, “dominatrix” gear) because they fit My body, and My lifestyle.

Going up the list from there, for My higher powered pay pets and those who know sacrificing for Me is the ultimate, I also love sports cars, and classics. Rare and unusual are favored.

This is another reason why men adore Me, both Alpha and submissive. I tend to like a lot of the things men like.

Many of the other things I spend YOUR money on, are rare, or one of a kind items or better properties. And because of this, I don’t mention them nor show them on My blog.

And this is why I do not have one of those mail order house wish lists. I like high end, unique, one of a kind, unusual and luxury items. Not shopping mall frippery. I like things that have style and class, that get Me noticed even among the most wealthy. I like things that speak to My natural leadership qualities, the same way I have started so many trends in the FemDom world.

Now My pet, you do not have to be wealthy to contribute to My perfect luxury lifestyle. All tributes are welcome, and regular pay pets are the highest calling a submissive man can do for Me. But you DO have to sacrifice. You do have to keep Me happy. And that is the best job of all!

And that just gave Me a new idea. If I were to make pay per views from all the ideas I have, I’d start about 50 more trends in the FemDom world.  But best to keep most of them under wraps away from the prying public eyes and perhaps for that Submissive Men Members Only area I am considering. I’m still curious how much interest there is. I have received a lot of emails about it already. Check out My last blog post and add your opinion.

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And another average couple of days in extreme Financial Domination done My way, by the internets verifiable HIGHEST rated Financial Domination Dominatrix. I post these because I know it excites the rest of My money slaves, and any future money slaves who want to play at the highest level of Financial Domination as a coveted money slave to Me, Sabina Erotica.

I always wake to tributes in My email. My pets love to indulge Me, and I love all My money slaves and pay pets. I’ve added to My $999 Money Slave Club wall, and best of all, I have a new winner for “best money slave” for 2013 (so far). I love this!!!

The reviews for My .mp3′s are outrageously great (read what My slaves say in their own words, don’t take My word for it – “Feedback” Tab at upper right), and I have a new series of .mp3′s coming out very soon. I have the best name for the series, but because I am soooo emulated, I think I will “dumb down” the name for these and make it a bit more generic.

I’ve considered making a members only area, and I would love to hear what you think about this idea. Limited to paying money slaves and Sabina Erotica enthusiasts only, with exclusive pay per views for My best and most dedicated submissive pay pets and loyal fans, and a blog where I would write a lot more about My amazing life, and My unique thoughts about FemDom. Members ONLY would have access to, and the opportunity to buy, these amazing tasty treats from the Queen of FinDom, and be able to read more of My thoughts. I stopped writing anything of any depth a long time ago (on other blogs now deleted)  for the reasons stated above, and I would love to if My pets make it worth My while. Better if you call Me and we discuss these things one-on-one, but I am open to the idea. I’d rather you EMAIL Me your opinion rather than post a comment on My blog. But I welcome those too (I may only read them, not publish them).

Speaking of, I LOVE the comments My pets have been making on My FemDom blog!

I know reading about the Queen of FinDom excites you. Any and all money slaves are welcome if they understand My level of play is to indulge Me financially at a higher level (no $20 wish lists for Me!). Every man regardless of his financial means has done so in the past, and in fact, those who must sacrifice more, excite Me too. Broke-ass losers, you’ll find a bazillion places to chat up others like twitter. I have zero interest in you. Note the complete lack of [sic]  “ohhhh nooooo another time waster, blah blah” complaints on My blog. I don’t have any. Anyone contacting Me is paying from the moment of engagement, as it should be. Serious money slaves who want the highest level of play? Call Me now.

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