{"id":3975,"date":"2014-05-03T08:57:24","date_gmt":"2014-05-03T15:57:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/?p=3975"},"modified":"2025-07-12T07:06:55","modified_gmt":"2025-07-12T14:06:55","slug":"what-is-joi-in-femdom-fetish-when-did-guided-masturbation-become-jerk-off-instructions-joi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/2014\/05\/03\/what-is-joi-in-femdom-fetish-when-did-guided-masturbation-become-jerk-off-instructions-joi\/","title":{"rendered":"What is JOI in FemDom Fetish? When Did Guided Masturbation Become Jerk Off Instructions (JOI)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/1-sexy_lips-jerk-off-instructions-joi-guided-masturbation.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3976\" src=\"http:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/1-sexy_lips-jerk-off-instructions-joi-guided-masturbation.jpg\" alt=\"1-sexy_lips--jerk-off-instructions---joi-guided-masturbation\" width=\"576\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/1-sexy_lips-jerk-off-instructions-joi-guided-masturbation.jpg 576w, https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/1-sexy_lips-jerk-off-instructions-joi-guided-masturbation-300x187.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/a><strong>When did guided masturbation become jerk off instructions? JOI? What is JOI? Or jerk off instructions? 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JOI? What is JOI? Or jerk off instructions? It&#8217;s guided masturbation. Telling a man how to stroke his cock. It seems like this term changed over night. I find that a bit &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/2014\/05\/03\/what-is-joi-in-femdom-fetish-when-did-guided-masturbation-become-jerk-off-instructions-joi\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[96,167],"tags":[186,209],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3975"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3975"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3975\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5973,"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3975\/revisions\/5973"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3975"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3975"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3975"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}