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Exclusive Interview With Mistress Sabina Erotica<\/h1>\n
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Today, we have the fortune (or is it my misfortune<\/em>!? \u2013stay tuned!) of speaking with a particularly provocative and ruthless Mistress.<\/p>\n

\u201cHello, made to be-bi, and love to be-bi victims. I appreciate being included on your website.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cVictims,\u201d huh? Wow. I\u2019m starting to worry about what I may have gotten into, here!<\/p>\n

But, seriously, we appreciate having you with us.<\/p>\n

First, to get a few preliminaries out of the way\u2026 What name do you go by?<\/p>\n

\u201cSabina Erotica.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a name burned indelibly into a lot of psyches, I\u2019m sure.<\/p>\n

As you know, women who direct or preside over or otherwise involve themselves in this fetish have a wide array of qualifiers before their names. I\u2019m thinking of things like \u201cBrat,\u201d \u201cDomme,\u201d \u201cPrincess,\u201d Queen,\u201d and so on. What\u2019s your preference?<\/p>\n

\u201cMistress, God or Goddess.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Very cool. I think I stumbled on an advertisement of your where you refer to yourself as a \u201cPredatrix.\u201d<\/p>\n

So\u2026 What drives you? Are you looking for fun? Is it role play? Social activism? Spiritualism?<\/p>\n

\u201cDominating men makes my day better.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Ha! Fair enough, okay.<\/p>\n

And these men that you dominate\u2026 what do you call them<\/em>? \u201cBetas,\u201d \u201cLosers,\u201d \u201cMasochists,\u201d \u201cSlaves,\u201d \u201cSubs,\u201d or something else?<\/p>\n

\u201cAll these words! It depends on the situation. Beta, gent, loser, slave, sub, pet, toy, fag, money pig, doormat, submissive man, good boi, cum dump, puppet, baby-batter catcher, etc.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

I note the spelling of \u201cboi\u201d with an \u201ci.\u201d And \u201cbaby-batter catcher\u201d is a new one by me! That paints quite an image! And \u201cpaints\u201d is probably best understood as a double entendre \u2013 with some guy\u2019s face as the canvass, and another guy\u2019s cock as the paint brush.<\/p>\n

What got you into the world of domination and fetishes, in general \u2013 and making bi in particular?<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve been enjoying my dominance since I was very young. Growing into a formidable power has been a pleasure for me, and a continual source of education. It has honed my skills like a razor blade. One that cuts. Deep.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

You\u2019re weaponized.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhy making them bi? Because putting an Alpha man\u2019s cock in a sub\u2019s \u2018face-fuck hole\u2019 is about the most submissive thing a man can do. And I like making men do submissive things<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s up there! (No pun intended. Or maybe\u2026 one was<\/em> intended.)<\/p>\n

How long have you been at this?<\/p>\n

\u201cContinuously online since 2006.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Okay. So\u2026around 13 years and counting. That\u2019s a fateful number, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

\u201cWho doesn\u2019t love making men drop like dominos?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cI file my nails while making men do nasty, vile, disgusting things. Win-win!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cNasty, vile, disgusting things\u201d? Oh, boi! I can already tell that we\u2019re going to have a fun chat!<\/p>\n

Do you also have a \u201cdungeon,\u201d studio, or other space for face-to-face, in-person, or real-time meets?<\/p>\n

\u201cNope. It\u2019s online only \u2013 phone and paid emails. I love the fast pace of phone sessions. It\u2019s the best kind of education. You learn to slip inside a man\u2019s head and fuck him ten ways to Sunday, in minutes.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Are you aiming to make money, or derive pleasure \u2013 or both?<\/p>\n

\u201cMen must pay. Period. The kind of highly specialized experience I\u2019ve gained from years of dominating and owning men via phone is priceless.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Ha! I see. But, you\u2019ll try your best to attach to price to it anyway!<\/p>\n

How much of your energy and time does this take up?<\/p>\n

\u201cIt energizes me. When my phone rings, I think: \u2018Ahh\u2026. My next casualty!\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

I\u2019m detecting a set of themes, here. \u201cCasualty,\u201d \u201cvictim,\u201d \u201cdisgusting, nasty, vile things\u2026\u201d This is on the dark side.<\/p>\n

Are you satisfied with this level of involvement?<\/p>\n

\u201cYes.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Do you feel comfortable sharing anything else about yourself, on either personal or professional levels? E.g., How old are you? Are you in a relationship? (Conventional? Alternative\/BDSM?) What is your sexual orientation? Etc.<\/p>\n

\u201cI am highly skilled in the many ways to control men because I have a passion for it. Creating extraordinary mental and physical phone sessions is important for me. I am the predator, and beta men are my prey. I\u2019m always hungry.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cSubmissive men beg to serve me \u2013 do anything for me. That kind of desire is a powerful tool. It\u2019s an addiction that a man will never quit.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cI am happily single, and every minute of every day is mine to do as I wish. Conventional marriage doesn\u2019t interest me. I surround myself with as many attractive, interesting, intellectual and hung-like-a-horse men as I please.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cBeing privy to the things a man would never share with his wife, his best buddy, or anyone else, is like being in the \u2018inner, inner\u2019 circle of the \u2018Boys\u2019 Club.\u2019\u00a0 Things men would never admit to anyone else. The \u2018secrets of secrets.\u2019 I am pleased knowing men in this way. The dark inner world, the truth of what a man is at his sexual core. I find it fascinating.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cOne more aspect of doing phone domination sessions is being able to talk to a huge variety of men, from all over the world. Bonus: I always have a select group of regulars that I genuinely enjoy.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Thank you!<\/p>\n

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Let\u2019s dive a bit further into the \u2018Make them-Bi\u2019 fetish. Just looking at the term, \u201cbisexuality.\u201d Do you think that true \u201cbisexuality\u201d \u2013 where a person is more of less equally attracted to females and males (but see a further question about problems with so-called \u201cbinarism\u201d) \u2013 is possible?<\/p>\n

\u201c\u2018Binarism\u2019? Huh? I Don\u2019t Care! All I care about is if the sub follows my orders. What do his attractions or desires have to do with anything?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

A very practical approach. So, how do you think of all this stuff? As a game? A lifestyle? A hobby?<\/p>\n

\u201cA huge power trip and mind fuck, and a sign of complete submission to me. A trap as well.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

A trap? As in\u2026 you enjoy getting guys hooked on gay sex? Put a pin in that for a second, we\u2019ll come back to it.<\/p>\n

Do you think of yourself as giving permission to men who are already inherently or latently gay? Or do you think of it as really changing a guy\u2019s orientation? Or something else?<\/p>\n

\u201cIf a man is already gay, why does he need me to make him to suck cock?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cI prefer forcing straight<\/em> men to suck dick \u2013 bi-curious men. Making men weak enough to do anything I tell them to do, and showing them that having big, mushroom-headed cocks down their throats while they are on their knees is exactly where they need to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cI license the expression of a subbies repressed \u2018gaiety,\u2019 so to say. I just call it \u2018made to be bi\u2019 so that the guys don\u2019t freak out on me. It\u2019s disarming.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cSome men are afraid of being \u2018gay.\u2019 I lie and tell them I know a lot of cocksuckers that are not gay. A cock sucker is a cock sucker.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

You have a facility with words, no mistake.<\/p>\n

In practice, \u201cmade to be bi\u201d seems most often to apply to men being somehow impelled to perform sexually (or to imagine performing sexually) with other men. However, in theory, it seems that it could apply to other things \u2013 for example, to women being impelled to perform sexually with other women \u2013 as well. Do you see it primarily in terms of male submission, male and female submission, both, or neither?<\/p>\n

\u201cIt Mostly Pertains to Male Submission. It\u2019s that pesky testosterone hormone that drives men to do all kinds of bizarre sexual things.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Ha! Guilty!<\/p>\n

Now the other core idea in the fetish, besides \u201cbisexuality,\u201d is this notion of being made<\/em>. As a legal disclaimer, of course, I should state that we do not advocate, condone, endorse, recommend, or otherwise suggest any behavior that would violate the law. If we\u2019re probing the range of possible meanings for the sort of consensual in view, what would you say about it? Is it coercion, manipulation, persuasion? What\u2019s going on?<\/p>\n

\u201cAll of these!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cSometimes, it\u2019s coercion. It can also involve commands. It\u2019s about power; the sub does what I tell him to \u2013 period. It can be enticement or inducement where the guys do it for my attention or where I tempt the guy into bisexual or gay situations \u2013 and lure him to his doom.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cIt can be like cheer leading and encouragement. It can be more like instruction: I am a teacher; the guy comes to me to learn. The class? Cock Sucking 101.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cOr it can be persuasion. I am very convincing!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cI can provoke. I goad the guy. Work him up to the edge and then, if necessary, give a huge push.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cI can also seduce. The guys are attracted to me. I redirect this attraction away from sex with me and onto doing things for me like plunging cock in his face.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Is it possible for a guy to be a \u201cswitch\u201d or \u201cversatile\u201d? (That is, to be able to take on the role of either bottom or top with more or less equal ability, if not enthusiasm.)<\/p>\n

\u201cI never met a \u2018switch\u2019 that was a true switch<\/em>. Every \u2018switch\u2019 is submissive at his core (some try hard to appear to be \u2018masculine\u2019 so they don\u2019t feel like a little bitch.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Some women profess to enjoy guy-on-guy sex. Straight women sometimes liken their enjoyment to that expressed by straight men who like witnessing two women together sexually. And in the case of two women, it is reasonable to think that participants are not always lesbians or even bisexual. They could just be \u201cattention whores.\u201d Other women might just like viewing gay spectacles. And a few, more dominant types perhaps, seem to find the gender-bending and role-reversal aspects appealing. Do any of these resonate with you?<\/p>\n

\u201cI enjoy the spectacle. It\u2019s like looking at a car crash, a train wreck, or watching a guy get busted jacking off to some embarrassing porn.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

A few women claim to want to date bisexual guys, participate in threesomes with them, etc. Others seem to think that once a guy tries guy-on-guy sex, he\u2019s less desirable to women). This may be a difference of opinion between more dominant and more submissive women. What do you think?<\/p>\n

\u201cThere is no way a submissive man is ever going to do anything remotely sexual with me. Bi or otherwise. Once I deem you submissive, you are my bitch ass-kisser for life.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Is the made up-bi fetish \u201chealthy\u201d or \u201cunhealthy\u201d? (I mean, is it positive and helpful for a male sub\u2019s flourishing, or is it negative and unhelpful?)<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s healthy. I want my subs to fulfill their cock-whore destinies. I\u2019m really freeing them and doing them a favor.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Ha! Thank you, Predatrix!<\/p>\n

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\u201cI love being involved with a dick hound\u2019s \u2018first\u2019 cock-mouth-meat experience. They never forget their first time!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Is there anything you think is unhealthy about the fetish?<\/p>\n

\u201cUnhealthy? Seriously? It\u2019s only unhealthy if the submissive needs to throat-wrestle cock but doesn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cIf he doesn\u2019t, eventually his balls shrink into nothing, and his own penis will become an \u2018innie\u2019 and crawl back inside of him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cThat\u2019s what I heard. It just might be true.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Oh my god! Well\u2026 we can\u2019t have that!! So, you really are<\/em> performing a valuable service to mankind!<\/p>\n

Do you think of any of this is religious or spiritual terms?<\/p>\n

\u201cYes, I derive power from making someone Bi or from getting guys to subject themselves to this. They want it. Some are too pussy to do it themselves.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Nowadays, some people are opposed to the use of so-called \u201cbinary language\u201d \u2013 e.g., thinking in terms of \u201cfeminine\u201d versus \u201cmasculine,\u201d etc. \u2013 when it comes to John Money\u2019s concept of \u201cgender\u201d and sexuality. But made bi, arguably, has a kind of \u201cbi-narism\u201d built into its name. Do you see this as a problem for the \u201cmade-bi\u201d fetish?<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t care.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Okay, then! Moving on\u2026<\/p>\n

What homosexual-related activities do you most enjoy ordering or watching?<\/p>\n

\u201cEverything. cock sucking and oral sex; cum eating; anal, penetrative sex; creampies and internal cumshots; rimming assholes and tongue-fucking rectums.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cIn short: Making a subbie the best cocksucker he can be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cBonus: Alphas will continue to text him for blow jobs if he is really good.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Oh? And that sort of seals the sub\u2019s fate, so to speak?<\/p>\n

Which do you prefer, having guys in dedicated roles, or having both guys being plastic enough to perform in any role I want?<\/p>\n

\u201cI prefer having one (or many) dedicated bottom\/passive partners (the beta, bitch, catcher, cocksucker, or cum rag; etc.) and one (or more) dedicated top\/active partners (the alpha, cum donor, pitcher, stud, spunk slinger or stunt cock; etc.)<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cLet me be clear: This pertains to the men engaging in bi activities themselves, not including me.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Do you think that an \u201calpha\u201d can put his cock into a beta\u2019s mouth or ass and still be an alpha afterwards?<\/p>\n

\u201cYes; the alpha is still an alpha. The beta is simply being used to jack off the alpha\u2019s dick, much like many guys jerk off into tissues or Kleenex (or the whimsical sock). If you jack off into your right fist, does your left fist become gay if you switch hands? Or is your dominant hand still your dominant hand?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Are you aroused by being made to be bi, or just amused by it?<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m both (occasionally) aroused and always<\/em> amused.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Do you think that a guy can \u201cjust try\u201d sucking cock or getting assfucked and then quit?<\/p>\n

\u201cNope! Once he sucks jizz \u2013 or takes cock in his mangina \u2013 he\u2019ll be a cock whore thereafter. Once you go cock, you never go jock.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

So\u2026is this all fantasy-chat for you? Or do you want guys to get down and dirty in reality?<\/p>\n

\u201cI encourage (coerce, seduce, tease and even use information against them to make it happen ). I make beta pets have real, in-the-flesh encounters with other males.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cPhone might be the gateway; but I will make them suck that juicy tubesteak.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

For real. Wow. Is it getting warm in here?<\/p>\n

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How \u201cinvolved\u201d do you like to be? I mean\u2026 you issue the instruction and just take his word that he carried it out? You want to see photos? You want to watch live via webcam?<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to see photographic evidence. I demand proof that they go through with whatever I told them to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cBetter, I want to be on his phone \u2013 set to speaker \u2013 so I can both hear him gag on prime meat, and tell him what a good cock sucker he is. \u2018Chaperone by phone to suck bone.\u2019<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

What is your biggest focus\/turn on?<\/p>\n

\u201cHonestly, it\u2019s all about my power. I get off on my ability to get a guy to do extreme things.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

What sexual acts, if any, really charge your batteries? Do you prefer cocksuckers, cumdumps, tops?<\/p>\n

\u201cI enjoy it all! No preference, really. I just like pairing up males and letting the ball snot fly.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBall snot\u201d? Wow\u2026 that\u2019s deliciously repulsive.<\/p>\n

Okay\u2026 on Limits, we\u2026 do you have any?<\/p>\n

\u201cI have a few limits; my subs do what I tell them.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

How do you feel about guys having gay sex without condoms (i.e., \u201cbarebacking\u201d)? Against it? For it? No preference?<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m between \u2018prefer\u2019 and \u2018insist.\u2019 I prefer that the guys bareback. If they insist on condoms, I\u2019ll tolerate it. But I will talk them out of it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cBarebacking is hotter. Stranger sex is intense. Stranger barebacking is the epitome of sluttiness.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cHow else is a cock slut going to feel that alpha cock explode in his pussy, and have that spunk dribbling out of his ass the rest of the day unless he takes it bareback?<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

I mean\u2026 fair point!<\/p>\n

Okay, let\u2019s say something about STD risk. We\u2019ve talked limits and barebacking. So, some Mistresses insist on safety because Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) in a sub are completely undesirable. Others don\u2019t care either way. Some even profess to find it a turn on to see a guy engage in risky gay sex. How do you feel about STDs and STD risk?<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t care either way.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Do you think of it at all in terms of your enticement of guys into \u201chigh-risk behavior\u201d?<\/p>\n

\u201cI make men do a lot of risky things, but when it comes to risky sex, let me put it this way: I have several beta bois who really get off when I tell them I am going to gangbang them bareback with nothing but HIV\/AIDS infected homosexuals so they will get AIDS. You should hear how they scream when they cum.\u00a0 It\u2019s not a scream of terror either.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Good lord!<\/p>\n

How do you feel about married men?<\/p>\n

\u201cI prefer<\/em> married men. I like defiling marriages and ruining relationships.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cI tell married men to suck cock at a glory hole, then rush home so they can tongue-kiss their wives and tell them how much they love them. Seriously. I get off on that shit.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

I\u2019m having, um\u2026 a hard time staying focused on the interview questions.<\/p>\n

How do you feel about guys really getting addicted to gay sex?<\/p>\n

\u201cOh. I aim<\/em> to get guys hooked on dick. If I\u2019m able, I want to turn a guy into a mindless cock-bot.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

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Do you have any other fetishes or activities that you like to participate in, direct, or instruct? (E.g., \u201cBlackmail,\u201d CBT, Cum-Eating; Pegging\/Strapon, Etc.)<\/p>\n

\u201cOther fetishes and activities I also love to do? How much time do you have?!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Ha! You sound like a ball of demonic fun!<\/p>\n

\u201cSubbies seek me out primarily for blackmail and financial play. However, I enjoy soooo<\/em> much more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cMind fuck, mind fuck, mind fuck! That is the basis for every good domination\/control session. Mind fuck<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cDominating men who have power in their daily lives (CEOs, doctors, lawyers, politicos, high-profile, etc., etc.) and treating them like any other slave. Believe me, I don\u2019t care who you are or how \u2018famous\u2019 you are. You are my little ass-bitch when you are with me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cSome other favorite things is making a sub\u2019s wife suffer without her knowing it, encouraging addictions, home wrecking, made to masturbate (pro\/con), chastity, body worship, encouraging infatuations pets develop for me (unrequited love in return), financial domination and or \u2018findom\u2019 counseling, kink counseling, making you better by making you worse, cuckolding, confessions, strap-on, regular butt-plug and dildo play, clothed female naked male (CFNM), total power exchange (TPE),\u00a0 race play, fetishes like feet, boots, etc., reverse psychology, assigning tasks that mind fuck, ruined orgasms, public humiliation, blindfolds, piercings, homelessness, psychodrama, emotional agony \u2026 And the list goes on. And on.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Good grief! Your list really does go on and on! Like the roster of ruined lives?<\/p>\n

Okay, so\u2026<\/p>\n

How can fans and other interested persons check out your work? Do you have any social media accounts or websites to share?<\/p>\n

\u201cWebsite: <\/strong>SabinaErotica.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cOn niteflirt.com under my name \u2018<\/strong>Sabina Erotica<\/strong><\/a>\u2019 (where you can contact me for phone or paid mail sessions).<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cFor example: <\/strong>https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/listings\/show\/6863402\u2013SNAP-KILLER-CONTROL-HOT-SEXY-DANGEROUS<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cBlog: <\/strong>http:\/\/sabinaerotica.com\/blog\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cSomewhere on Tumblr and a few other places I forget where.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

Well\u2026whew!<\/p>\n

I need a cold shower!<\/p>\n

Thank you SO much for being with us today, Mistress Sabina Erotica!<\/p>\n

\u201cThank you for the opportunity to discuss this hot kinky topic!<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

The pleasure\u2019s mine, I assure you!<\/p>\n

(Note: All images displayed in this post are Copyright 2019 Mistress Sabina Erotica. They are reproduced here with permission from the copyright holder.)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n